In general, how was your 2015?

walk,on,by wrote:
I did finish my first novel of erotica this year, and now I am in the throws of rewriting it for final prep to be hopefully published in 2016. 

Fixed that for you.

there, is some of that, in there.  not much.  im fascinated how sex, controls one, mentally. 

walk,on,by wrote:
relaxer, i want to know more about this fight you got going with a work higher up.

my year, was up and down.  great job, great partner, great friends.

but, I flipped and totaled my vehicle in the national forest when a full size bear was right there in the road.  I came within second or inches of dying, for real.  the police and paramedics who pulled me out the vehicle through the windshield after I was knocked unconscious for over 30 minutes, told me . . . dude, you got 9 lives, because you should be dead right here right now.  I will never be the same mentally after that, for it changed my perspectives on life in general.  Plus I loved that vehicle.

I did finish my first novel of fiction this year, and now I am in the throws of rewriting it for final prep to be hopefully published in 2016. 

I won't complain . . . but it would have been nice to see more shows this year.  totally slacked on that department.  Did not even see phish this year.

how does one nearly….,die… and not let the board know this?

I don't trust a lot of people . . . but im working on that.  I would never share my personal life on a site full of strangers, but as I said, my views of what is perceived as reality has changed, so now I don't mind posting my photos on here, telling people what I do for a living, giving some internal insight into my levels of thinking.

plus, im trying to forget the accident.  and if I ever see that bear again, im knocking him the fuck out.

walk,on,by wrote:
I don't trust a lot of people . . . but im working on that.  I would never share my personal life on a site full of strangers, but as I said, my views of what is perceived as reality has changed, so now I don't mind posting my photos on here, telling people what I do for a living, giving some internal insight into my levels of thinking.

plus, im trying to forget the accident.  and if I ever see that bear again, im knocking him the fuck out.

Interesting,,, indeed.

Space wrote:

Relaxer wrote:
There was a period of time where I wanted to get a vasectomy and not tell my wife, and then convince her that we should have a 3rd kid so that I'd get like six months of constant lovin' without fear of further ruining my life.

Offer to do more housework. My wife tells me all the time she's be up for boning daily if I did my share of the housework.

I already own: groceries; bills; laundry, school lunches; all get-ready-for-school activities including getting kiddies up and dressed, having breakfast, and pooping; 75% of dog-walking; 50% of dish-washing; 25% of dinner preparation; and oh yeah, I make the money, provide us insurance, pay the taxes, and manage our rental properties.

My wife owns: school pick-up, gifts, travel plans, 75% of dinner preparation, 50% of dish-washing, 25% of dog-walking, and there might be a couple more but I can't remember them. Bottom line is (and we both acknowledge this) I do the majority of the housework.

Me: [looks down onto lap] Ready for some bonin' buddy?
Dong: lol, yeah right, zzzzzzzzzz
Me: [sigh]

Walkonby, I can't get into the whole work drama thing here. I've been vocal about where I work, and even the slimmest possibility of this person reading my thoughts on it would be very very bad.

Relaxer wrote:
Walkonby, I can't get into the whole work drama thing here. I've been vocal about where I work, and even the slimmest possibility of this person reading my thoughts on it would be very very bad.

It's Ira Glass, isn't it!?

*awaits Relaxer reflexively going on about the difference between programming on NPR member stations and NPR itself*

Relaxer wrote:
Me: [looks down onto lap] Ready for some bonin' buddy?
Dong: lol, yeah right, zzzzzzzzzz
Me: [sigh]

I remember the good old days when they didn't use such judgmental terms as "erectile dysfunction," and called it something more playful like "sleepy peepee."

But seriously, there's a pill for that.

Relaxer wrote:

Space wrote:

Relaxer wrote:
There was a period of time where I wanted to get a vasectomy and not tell my wife, and then convince her that we should have a 3rd kid so that I'd get like six months of constant lovin' without fear of further ruining my life.

Offer to do more housework. My wife tells me all the time she's be up for boning daily if I did my share of the housework.

I already own: groceries; bills; laundry, school lunches; all get-ready-for-school activities including getting kiddies up and dressed, having breakfast, and pooping; 75% of dog-walking; 50% of dish-washing; 25% of dinner preparation; and oh yeah, I make the money, provide us insurance, pay the taxes, and manage our rental properties.

My wife owns: school pick-up, gifts, travel plans, 75% of dinner preparation, 50% of dish-washing, 25% of dog-walking, and there might be a couple more but I can't remember them. Bottom line is (and we both acknowledge this) I do the majority of the housework.

Me: [looks down onto lap] Ready for some bonin' buddy?
Dong: lol, yeah right, zzzzzzzzzz
Me: [sigh]

Sorry brah… now I know why you're on the drugs.

Carlos wrote:

Relaxer wrote:
Me: [looks down onto lap] Ready for some bonin' buddy?
Dong: lol, yeah right, zzzzzzzzzz
Me: [sigh]

I remember the good old days when they didn't use such judgmental terms as "erectile dysfunction," and called it something more playful like "sleepy peepee."

But seriously, there's a pill for that.

Nah, it's not ED or even whiskey-dick-itis. It's a sad, tragic case of not-gettin-any-action syndrome.

this thread

good question

Space wrote:

Relaxer wrote:
There was a period of time where I wanted to get a vasectomy and not tell my wife, and then convince her that we should have a 3rd kid so that I'd get like six months of constant lovin' without fear of further ruining my life.

Offer to do more housework. My wife tells me all the time she's be up for boning daily if I did my share of the housework.

It's a trap!

my ass is closer to becoming one with the couch…

work was a mess, grad school was stressful, newcastle were shite, but everything else was aces

got to hang out with smackie, bede and the director in one weekend too

walk,on,by wrote:
I don't trust a lot of people . . . but im working on that.  I would never share my personal life on a site full of strangers, but as I said, my views of what is perceived as reality has changed, so now I don't mind posting my photos on here, telling people what I do for a living, giving some internal insight into my levels of thinking.

plus, im trying to forget the accident.  and if I ever see that bear again, im knocking him the fuck out.

Um…holy shit! Glad you're ok!

My year was relatively good. Passed the CSP exam, husband got a job he really likes, MIL is staying relatively sane and not drinking, I like my job.

On the flip side, our cat almost died, but she seems to be hanging in there and both of my husband's grandparents died within 2 weeks of one another last month. But, there's always some bad to round out the good.

^great wedding photo!

how long did you hold that position?

vansmack wrote: