Ehrlich on Gay Marriage

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Ehrlich Denounces Gay Marriage, Vows Legislative Fight

By Lori Montgomery
Washington Post Staff Writer
Friday, November 21, 2003; Page B01


Maryland Gov. Robert L. Ehrlich Jr. vowed yesterday to block efforts that would give gay couples the same legal rights as married people and said he would support legislation to ban recognition of same-sex marriages performed in other states.



During an interview on WTOP radio, Ehrlich (R) was emphatic in his rejection of gay marriage, saying Maryland lawmakers should not bother trying to capitalize on a Massachusetts court ruling this week that recognized a right to civil marriage regardless of sexual orientation.

"It's certainly not going to happen in Maryland," Ehrlich said. "End of discussion."

Ehrlich, who won election last fall as a moderate, said he is "generally of a libertarian mind-set" on homosexuality. He said he opposes measures that seek to criminalize gay sex, saying that "the government really should not be sticking its nose into consenting adults – their behavior in the bedroom."

Gay marriage, on the other hand, "is far different," Ehrlich said. "The institution of marriage, obviously, is the bedrock of our foundation. It's been under attack; it's been weakened for many, many decades now. I'm not going to play a part in further weakening this incredibly important institution."

In the wake of the Massachusetts ruling – the most conclusive recognition by a court of a right to same-sex marriage – Democratic lawmakers have said they intend to introduce legislation to authorize civil unions for gay couples when the General Assembly convenes in January.

A coalition of Republicans and conservative Democrats, meanwhile, is planning to introduce "defense of marriage" legislation that would ban gay marriage and prohibit Maryland officials from recognizing same-sex marriages performed elsewhere.

Only Vermont allows civil unions of gay couples. Thirty-seven states, including Virginia, have passed laws that render legal recognition of same-sex unions moot within their borders.

Asked whether he expects an explosive battle over the issue in Maryland, as some lawmakers predict, Ehrlich dismissed gay marriage as "a marginal issue" advanced primarily by interest groups to help recruit members and raise money.

"It's a little bit like partial-birth abortion or the assault weapons ban. . . . If the major issue here is gay rights, for instance, this is an edge issue, a marginal issue. The major issue of abortion on the edge is partial-birth abortion, which is hardly ever performed. I oppose it. But you see my point," he said.

Del. Richard S. Madaleno Jr., one of the chief advocates of same-sex marriage in Maryland, said he will press legislation nonetheless, saying legal marriage "would be of incalculable worth to the few people who would benefit."

"It would allow such peace of mind when you think about putting your life in order," said Madaleno (D-Montgomery). "I wish the governor, who appropriately celebrates his marriage with Kendel in almost every forum, could look at other people, his friends, his staff people, who are in relationships that deserve the same sort of respect and security."
Don't blame me. I sent money to Kennedy-Townsend.
Why should anyone care if a gay couple want to marry? Permission for a civil marriage should be a given, if a particular religion doesn't agree then that's up to them, although I can't see how the Catholic church can have a problem with it seeing as they condone sex between men and boys.

Just my tuppence worth.
It would seem obvious how gays have influenced the world negatively with their bad dance music and overemphasis on (bad) fashion. But how on earth would this further contribute to the weakening of marriage as an institution? Divorce rates would point to the fact that non-gays have done quite a job on fucking it up themselves.

On another note, in response to Ehrlich's pregnant wife saying she'd like to "shoot Britney Spears", Britney responded by saying, "I think she needs to get laid." Classic.
if two concenting adults want to enter into a commitment, i don't see how a secular state can really choose who is allowed and who isn't.
What a prick.


"It's certainly not going to happen in Maryland," Ehrlich said. "End of discussion."


At least he's open minded about it.


Gay marriage, on the other hand, "is far different," Ehrlich said. "The institution of marriage, obviously, is the bedrock of our foundation.


nice soundbite. means nothing.


It's been under attack; it's been weakened for many, many decades now.


You can thank the heteros for that. You've destroyed your own institution.



Asked whether he expects an explosive battle over the issue in Maryland, as some lawmakers predict, Ehrlich dismissed gay marriage as "a marginal issue" advanced primarily by interest groups to help recruit members and raise money.


"It's really not important. They're only gay people, after all."


"It's a little bit like partial-birth abortion or the assault weapons ban. . . . If the major issue here is gay rights, for instance, this is an edge issue, a marginal issue. The major issue of abortion on the edge is partial-birth abortion, which is hardly ever performed. I oppose it. But you see my point," he said.



"I'm all for gay rights, as long as we don't have to give them anything important."
Originally posted by Skeeter:
What a prick.

HA! A prick that will never stand erect for gays! ;)
Originally posted by mankie:


HA! A prick that will never stand erect for gays! ;)
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Last night on The Daily Show, Jon Stewart went through a number of the Congressmen supporting the Defense of Marraige act, and noted their interest in this issue to a one as a result of their new respect for the institution of marriage, learned just after the dissolution of their marriages to their first wives….

It was a beautiful piece, goddamn hypocritical motherf*ckering congressmen.
What is the "institution of marriage". Is that like a psycho ward? It just doesn't sound appealing. My biggest problem is that the conservatives won't come up with something equivalent that would allow homosexual couples to have the same legal and social standing as heterosexual couples. They want to promote monogamy but not give a good avenue for it for homosexuals.
Originally posted by Sir HC:
They want to promote monogamy but not give a good avenue for it for homosexuals.
I think you'll find Connecticut Avenue is a good avenue for homosexuals, especially around 18th St. NW.
And Dupont circle right over the avenue…
It's so nice to know that such open minded straight people won't let the "few" people who would like to be married and are gay get married. I mean can't he see that its wrong to not let people get married. I mean isn't that a right everyone should have. I think it is wrong that he is letting his opinion decide other people's future. But I guess that's how it works and i am being naive.
they could pretend to be married….
Originally posted by Rhett Miller:

"The institution of marriage, obviously, is the bedrock of our foundation.
the FUCK does that even mean ?

The bedrock of our foundation…sounds like a fucking geologist.
Some people feel that why they really don't care what people do with their lives, they also don't want their children to see or be molded by gay marriages. I know I for one do not want its ok to be gay thrown in my child's face. While I don't give a ratâ??s ass if you are gay, I don't think its right or agree with it. Keep it to yourself, be tasteful about it. Why must we make special laws for gays, its as bad as having a black history month or a BET. Why is there no Asian history month? Everyone wants to be equal, but do everything they can to separate themselves from the rest. I don't want to offend anyone, but lets face it its time everyone shuts the fuck up and just lives. No need to glamorize being gay, black, white or anything else for that matter.
who glamorizes being white?

you must care if you can talk about it that long.
how does allowing gay marriage glamorize being gay? wtf? it's pretty much been scientifically proven that homosexuality is something you are born with. I mean, really…when you were a kid, do you really think if you saw 2 guys who were married, that would make you want to go out and gave some guy suck you off in a bathroom? lol…i just don't understand why people are so afraid of gay marriage……from the way you are talking, hey, might as well take a womens right to vote away as well since thats giving them "special rights"…hell, might as well make the blacks sit in the back of the bus again too, after all, who would want to give them the special right of sitting wherever they want?

for me, it's more of a seperation of church and state thing….they can ban it all they want to in church….i'm okay with that…but last time i checked, marriage is a civil affair.
Of course I think they should be able to sit wherever the want, lol. You took some things I said the wrong way, or maybe I just did not know how to say what I feel the right way. Its a touchy subject.
it all comes down to, whould you want a gay son???