My Journey into Becoming Single Again at Age 45

so are we not going to get an Instagram account here
I'm not talking faces or compromising positions…but just funny shit related to the dates
like her shoes
definitely the Tuba
maybe a screen shot of some of your txt banter

the masses want more

I'll consider it.

"What we are looking for is someone who will compliment us."

How good are you at handing out compliments?

maybe I missed this part, there is so much in this thread to pound through . . . but do the women involved in these personal parlays of yours, know you are posting about them in on an online forum fuck thread?  I still think the name should be changed to that, even though you would have to blur out the fuck in fuck thread, and who wants that.

No, of course I haven't mentioned this, which is why I'm trying to keep it somewhat anonymous and also why I'm not going to post any photos. Am I being unethical here? It doesn't seem like it to me, but I'm open to hearing viewpoints on this.

things are going mighty fine on this thread.. no need to make any changes.. just keep keepin' on…

I think it is quasi unethical with out really hurting anyone or giving personal details.  I don't think the other people involved would be pleased if they knew, but that is a normal human reaction to such things.  I believe it a mental call on your part to decide if what you are doing is right or wrong . . . which is such juicy formulation for a brain to make.  choose wisely, like one of those old timey choose your own adventure books.

we barely know who you are (relaxer) and if you don't give any deets on who they are….not sure how this could be an ethical issues

walk,on,by wrote:
I think it is quasi unethical with out really hurting anyone or giving personal details.  I don't think the other people involved would be pleased if they knew, but that is a normal human reaction to such things.  I believe it a mental call on your part to decide if what you are doing is right or wrong . . . which is such juicy formulation for a brain to make.  choose wisely, like one of those old timey choose your own adventure books.

yeah, because people lookin' for anonymous sex online have feelings too.  ;D

gurl

SideBernt wrote:
we barely know who you are (relaxer) and if you don't give any deets on who they are….not sure how this could be an ethical issues

Hemingway

hutch wrote:

SideBernt wrote:
we barely know who you are (relaxer) and if you don't give any deets on who they are….not sure how this could be an ethical issues

Hemingway

I was thinking more Henry Miller, but wahduino

Damn, Relaxer, you've been super busy lately lol. Here I thought the thread went cold and then tonight, I found all this amusing stuff to read. The anime girl sounds kickass. You have to be pretty awesome to just randomly buy a tuba. She sounds like some fantastic character out of an episode of Portlandia ha.

The mother of your son's friend thing sounds like some crazy ish. I'd jump ship before getting caught. Nothing more awkward than explaining to your son why Johnny's mom was over and left her panties in a hurry. (Real talk - sure kids sleep soundly but they're also expert ninjas when it comes to sneaking around at night. I only know this because 20 years ago, I was a kid and I snuck out of bed and caught my older half sister with a guy. Thank God it was nothing graphic! She was 20 at the time and was babysitting me and our younger sister overnight.)

As for the twins, not sure whether to laugh, give you a high five, or find it a bit creepy. Wanting a Dom is one thing, but wanting a daddy Dom is just a bit ewe in my opinion. You'll have to let us know if the girls are real or if it's a scam! Either way, the story will be a popcorn kind of read.

No word back from the twins yet, that ship may have sailed (or never existed in the first place).

Ok, I need some brainstorming help. Tonight I'm seeing a woman who was born in Thailand and has been in the US for about 10 years, I think. We'd originally planned dinner and drinks, but now she's saying she wants "to do something fun." Something fun? Something fun? What is that? I don't know what's fun. What do people do for fun? Meaning, people that are not like us music nerds.

I need ideas and I need them fast. I can dance so that's a possibility, but where does someone go to dance on a Monday night? I suppose I could propose a bar with games like pool or board games, but which bar is that exactly?

Anyone got any bright ideas?

She sounds high maintenance….

Possibly but maybe she's just as tired with the dinner-and-drinks-and-chat circuit that I am and wants to do something more active. Let's go with that theory as you all come up with brilliant ideas.

Relaxer wrote:
No word back from the twins yet, that ship may have sailed (or never existed in the first place).

Ok, I need some brainstorming help. Tonight I'm seeing a woman who was born in Thailand and has been in the US for about 10 years, I think. We'd originally planned dinner and drinks, but now she's saying she wants "to do something fun." Something fun? Something fun? What is that? I don't know what's fun. What do people do for fun? Meaning, people that are not like us music nerds.

I need ideas and I need them fast. I can dance so that's a possibility, but where does someone go to dance on a Monday night? I suppose I could propose a bar with games like pool or board games, but which bar is that exactly?

Anyone got any bright ideas?

Long ago, when I was single in the 90's, I did the personals. So I was always having to fulfill the "fun" request, as if just being with me in and of itself was anything less than a thrill a minute.

How about bowling? Or miniature golf? An art gallery? Comet PING PONG? Asians like ping pong, right?

The first woman I ever met via a personal ad suggested we meet at a laundromat. And we did.  Perhaps she wanted to check out my underwear. No sparks but at least I got my laundry done. She said her favorite thing to do in the whole world was driving around the Baltimore Beltway late at night. Perhaps I lack imagination, and I'm pretty sure she wasn't suggesting it as a first date activity, but that didn't appeal to me.

This is tough to resist…..Madams Organ:

Monday, April 4

One Nite Stand

Reggae
Funk
R&B
Heating up the place with the wicked licks of his saxophone, is D.C.'s own Walter Tates, Jr, the banging bass of B.T. Richardson, the hot strings of lead guitarist Tony Harrod, the irresistible beat of "Biscuit", on the drums. Audiences are inspired to move to the tantalizing groove of One Nite Stand, with their Caribbean Dance . A guaranteed good time is awaiting you each and every Monday night.



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Actually I am not recommending Madams Organ as its a bit divey…so far I got nothing

You could always just buy a tuba and see where that takes you…

the problem is my idea of fun tonight would probably be getting plowed eating buffalo wings watching NCAA final…